{"id":103,"date":"2015-08-24T13:54:44","date_gmt":"2015-08-24T13:54:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.arielitovsky.com\/blog\/?p=103"},"modified":"2017-08-27T16:57:30","modified_gmt":"2017-08-27T16:57:30","slug":"a-culture-of-trust","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.arielitovsky.com\/blog\/a-culture-of-trust\/","title":{"rendered":"A Culture of Trust"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"media-padded\">\n<p>We live in a time when software developers change jobs every <a href=\"http:\/\/www.techrepublic.com\/blog\/career-management\/tech-companies-have-highest-turnover-rate\/\">12 months<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Usually, about two years into a job, I start dreaming of greener pastures with better pay and more interesting work. Working at <a href=\"http:\/\/stackoverflow.com\/\">Stack Overflow<\/a> has been the exception to that rule. In the wake of the recent <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2015\/08\/16\/technology\/inside-amazon-wrestling-big-ideas-in-a-bruising-workplace.html?_r=0\">Amazon expos\u00e9<\/a> and my 2 year work anniversary, I\u2019d like to share some thoughts about what it&#8217;s like working at Stack.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Some background:<\/strong> I am not one of the founding developers of Stack Overflow. By the time I arrived in August 2013, the core Question &amp; Answer (Q&amp;A) team (our most popular product) was well established; the site had been around for four years already.<\/p>\n<h1>On Turnover<\/h1>\n<p>During the two years I\u2019ve worked at Stack Overflow, only three web developers have left the company. Of the three, two of them left to work on a startup, and one of them &#8211; Matt Jibson &#8211; went to work on a technology stack he was more interested in. The day he left, Matt tweeted:<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/\/i.imgur.com\/SuGuOVo.png\" alt=\"\/\/i.imgur.com\/SuGuOVo.png\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Our lack of turnover speaks for itself.<\/p>\n<h1>On Continued Employment &amp; Trust<\/h1>\n<p>During my two years at Stack Overflow, I have gained a solid understanding of its many facets. I&#8217;ve learned about our mobile apps, our core Q&amp;A product, our technology stack, the Stack Overflow Careers product, and even sales. However, I feel I\u2019ve barely begun to make an impact on the company.<\/p>\n<p>Having spent a year and a half on the mobile team, I recently <a href=\"\/blog\/from-mobile-back-to-the-web\/\">decided to change teams<\/a>, eventually finding a balance of fit and interest in our Careers product.<\/p>\n<p>Tenure with a company is extremely valuable for both parties. You build <strong>trust and rapport<\/strong> with your co-workers. Today I feel comfortable and familiar with all of my fellow developers, product managers, and even the VPs and \u201cC-level\u201d execs (who are very accessible). On a typical day, I\u2019ll talk to sales representatives in the morning while <a href=\"https:\/\/instagram.com\/p\/6iezu_te92\/?taken-by=arielitovsky\">making espresso<\/a>, chat with our office managers and assistants, and say hello to our incredible chefs. I would talk to the walls too, if only they\u2019d give me interesting insights about the company. I\u2019m working on that.<\/p>\n<p>Some business folks that I&#8217;ve worked with in the past don&#8217;t like to talk. Isn\u2019t it better to be secretive about your work and get ahead of your co-workers in this <strong>dog eat dog<\/strong> world?<\/p>\n<p>We have a good answer for that. In the book <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/0787960756\/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0787960756&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=copwitmovcom-20&amp;linkId=P4JPVHMWN4H2XUZ4\">The Five Dysfunctions of a Team<\/a>, Patrick Lencioni explains that many of the basic problems of a modern team are structured in a pyramid. It&#8217;s similar to Maslow\u2019s hierarchy of needs, but from a corporate perspective. At the base of Lencioni\u2019s pyramid is the absence of trust:<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/i.imgur.com\/HqpllxV.png\" alt=\"Patrick Lencioni's 5 dysfunctions\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Clearly, <strong>if you don\u2019t trust each other<\/strong>, the bottom dysfunction isn\u2019t resolved, and thus the upper dysfunctions just crumble under a bad foundation. On the other hand,\u00a0<strong>when you do trust people<\/strong> you work with, you can avoid feeling any of the following:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>This person will think my idea is stupid, and will conclude I am stupid.<\/li>\n<li>This person will steal my idea and take the credit.<\/li>\n<li>This person doesn\u2019t really know me, and will misunderstand \/ undervalue my perspective and background.<\/li>\n<li>I\u2019m too shy to share since I barely know her\/him.<\/li>\n<li>I don\u2019t want to share my idea with this person. I don\u2019t trust him\/her.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>This means that the best ideas in a dysfunctional company are never shared.<\/strong> People are afraid to speak their mind freely, and thus the flow of information (which is essential to a business\u2019 success) is slowed down.<\/p>\n<h1>It Isn&#8217;t Just Trust<\/h1>\n<p>For me, trust has led to a deeper knowledge of the organization, its products, and our business goals which allows me to work with confidence and propose ideas without fear. I would never have gained that knowledge without communicating with my co-workers. I recall many talks shared over lunch where I listened intently and <strong>asked lots of questions without being afraid of appearing dumb<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>In my case, developing trust has been key to my success. I am proud to see a few recently hired co-workers who are more trusting than I was, and therefore are having an impact on the company sooner than I had. By letting yourself become vulnerable, you begin to build trust with others.<\/p>\n<p>This is what we do at Stack. We make sure people aren\u2019t afraid to challenge each other, and are\u00a0<strong>comfortable in constructive conflict<\/strong>. Challenging a co-worker\u00a0that you haven&#8217;t built trust with can seem aggressive and cut-throat, because she or he\u00a0isn\u2019t sure of your motives.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><strong>Side thoughts:<\/strong><br \/>\nI\u2019m sure I\u2019ll read this post in 10 years and laugh, but right now it\u2019s hard to imagine finding a better place to work. Actually, I hear this a lot in our office. People regularly quip, \u201cI never want to leave\u201d. When the company\u2019s mission is about serving the software developer community and creating a healthy community of learning, it stands to reason that the company will treat, <strong>not only its developers, but all of its employees<\/strong> in a fair and humane way. Stack does this by giving its employees all the tools that we need and simply <a href=\"http:\/\/avc.com\/2012\/02\/the-management-team-guest-post-from-joel-spolsky\/\">getting the hell outta our way<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Want to work with me? <a href=\"http:\/\/stackexchange.com\/work-here\" target=\"_blank\">Stack Overflow is\u00a0hiring<\/a>.<\/p>\n<div class=\"metadata -row\">\n<div class=\"-col6 _textLeft\">\n<p>Thanks to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.haneycodes.net\" target=\"_blank\">David Haney<\/a> (<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/haneycodes\" target=\"_blank\">@haneycodes<\/a>) for editing \/ proofing<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We live in a time when software developers change jobs every 12 months. Usually, about two years into a job, I start dreaming of greener pastures with better pay and more interesting work. Working at Stack Overflow has been the exception to that rule. In the wake of the recent Amazon expos\u00e9 and my 2 &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.arielitovsky.com\/blog\/a-culture-of-trust\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">A Culture of Trust<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-103","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.arielitovsky.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/103","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.arielitovsky.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.arielitovsky.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.arielitovsky.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.arielitovsky.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=103"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"http:\/\/www.arielitovsky.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/103\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":133,"href":"http:\/\/www.arielitovsky.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/103\/revisions\/133"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.arielitovsky.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=103"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.arielitovsky.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=103"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.arielitovsky.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=103"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}